Tuesday, November 14, 2017

Sunday Sayings....



Sunday Sayings...


This weekend was Stake Conference, which was so inspiring that I decided to write about it and start putting my thoughts on here as my "Sunday Sayings". 

This year's new theme is this:  "The Book of Mormon is the most correct book on the earth, and the keystone of our religion, a man will get nearer to God by abiding by its precepts, than by any other book." - The Prophet Joseph Smith, Introduction to the Book of Mormon.

Pres. Hinckley said, "regardless of how many times you previously may have read the Book of Mormon, there will come into your lives and into your homes an added measure of the Spirit of the Lord, a strengthened resolution to walk in obedience to His commandments, and a stronger testimony of the living reality of the Son of God."

Pres. Benson said, "There are three great reasons why Latter-day Saints should make the study of the Book of Mormon a lifetime pursuit.

The first is that the Book of Mormon is the keystone of our religion.  The second great reason why we must make the Book of Mormon a center focus of study is that it was written for our day. The third reason is that it helps us draw nearer to God."
Pres. Monson said, "I implore each of us to prayerfully study and ponder the Book of Mormon each day. As we do so, we will be in a position to hear the voice of the Spirit, to resist temptation, to overcome doubt and fear, and to receive heaven’s help in our lives."
Pres. Nelson asked us three questions about the Book of Mormon:
1.  What would your life be without this book? 
2.  What would you not know? 
3.  What would you not have?
I promise that as you prayerfully study the Book of Mormon every day, you will make better decisions—every day. I promise that as you ponder what you study, the windows of heaven will open, and you will receive answers to your own questions and direction for your own life. I promise that as you daily immerse yourself in the Book of Mormon, you can be immunized against the evils of the day....We need to feel, deep in “the inmost part” of our hearts, that the Book of Mormon is unequivocally the word of God. We must feel it so deeply that we would never want to live even one day without it."
As I sat and listened to the many talks on the Book of Mormon today and about how they gained a testimony of this great book, I couldn't help but reflect on my own experience.  Throughout my life, I have had experiences that strengthen my testimony of the Book of Mormon that are not the lightening bolt experiences, but experiences nonetheless.  One year I decided to take notes on each chapter - something that stood out to me on that chapter - and to this day I love looking over that journal and I can remember the feelings I had and the knowledge I gained that year.  Each time I read and study this book I feel the spirit so strong that I want to shout it from the roof top for everyone to hear.  I liken this excitement to  whenever I sew a new bag or purse.....every time I finish one I am so excited and just love it and I think that I could never make one cuter than that one.  Then I make another one and I am so excited and just love it and I think that I could NEVER make one cuter than that one.  The excitement goes on and on each time I make a new one.  This is how it is with the Book of Mormon.  Each time I read and study it I am so excited and touched by the spirit and I think that I could never have this feeling again. Then I read it again and again and the feeling keeps coming back.  So much so that I want to shout from the roof top for all the world to hear that it really is true and all the promised blessings of reading are there waiting for us to receive them.  There is, undeniably, a strong spirit in those words!

So, I ask you....How has the Book of Mormon changed or affected your life?

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Who is my Jethro?

I read this today on the blog called, "Daily Closer to Christ".  It struck a cord with me so I thought I would share it on my blog.  

Who is my Jethro?

Sometimes you wake up and it all feels wrong.
You stand at the window and the dark clouds surround and the rain drizzles and the trees and flowers hang low from the weight of it all.
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The thoughts in your head echo the thoughts that surely others must be thinking, even if they don’t say the words out loud.  What are you doing?
And the world circles ’round crazy and life moves at it’s never stopping pace and you sit by yourself, alone.
In moments like these you need a new perspective.
But there aren’t a lot of souls who are brave enough to enter in and tell you the words you need to hear.
What you are doing is not good.  You are going to wear away from the weight of it.  This thing is too heavy for you.  You can’t do this alone.
Where are those brave souls when you need them to make war with your heart?
And, I guess it’s worth asking…
would you be willing to hear them if they did?

What if that same person told you that God would be with you…
That they would be willing to bear the burden with you…
That you could do this thing…
That you would be able to endure…
That peace, real peace, the kind that keeps the doubt from chasing, haunting, enveloping, would come.

Dark days come.  Sometimes in the heat of the moment we do things, say things, we wish we never had.  Regret.  It has the power to disable us.  To stop us in our tracks.  To send us back to places we thought we had walked away from for good.  And fear.  It has the power to paralyze us.  To doubt our ability to move forward.  To force us back into comfortable places that don’t allow God to grow in us.
Yes.  I know.
And this path you are on…you are not the only one who has walked it.  Others have been where you are.  Those brave souls who want to battle with your doubting heart ––why do you think they want to do that?
Because they have been in the exact place where you are.
They have walked that road.  Experienced that regret.  Felt that doubt.  Lived with the days that feel wrong.  What do they have to offer you?
Could it be that they have experienced His Grace?  That they have been through dark days that led them to grasp onto His enabling power.  The power that allows change.  Gethsemane and Calvary? Those are real places.  And what He did for us there…that really happened.
That is where their courage comes from.
And their perspective.
Their strength comes from His grace.
Moses woke up to a dark day like that.  It was Jethro who came brave asking the hard questions, “What is this thing that you doest?  Why sittest thou thyself alone?  The thing that thou doest is not good.  Thou wilt surely wear away…for this thing is too heavy for thee; thou art not able to perform it thyself alone.  Hearken now unto my voice, I will give thee counsel…God shall be with thee…able men…shall bear the burden with thee…thou shalt be able to endure.”  Exodus 18:14-23
“So Moses hearkened to the voice of his father in law, (Jethro) and did all that he had said.”  Exodus 18:24
Maybe you’re in a dark place.
Perhaps the weight of it all lies heavy on your heart.
Here is what I am wondering.  Who is your Jethro?
Who do you know that is not afraid to battle with your heart?  To help you gain a different perspective?  Willing to bear the burden with you.  To walk the path. To lead you to a source of strength beyond your own?
Because here is what I know for sure…
God is with you.
And the person who is your Jethro, they will be willing to bear this burden with you.
You can do this thing.
Go find your Jethro.  The one brave enough to make war with your heart.
Let them in.
Then peace will come.
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Saturday, June 21, 2014

Summer Fun–Day 21

Here it is…..the LONGEST day of the year!

How did I use the extra daylight hours?  Well…..

I went and conquered a mountain on my bike.

I have been wanting to do the trail called Jacob’s Ladder.  It is kind of sketchy in parts on the way down, but I did it!  Amy Harmer and I both conquered some feats today on the mountain, which makes the ride that much sweeter.  Plus, you get a beautiful view from the top!IMG_1285IMG_1286

Looking towards Utah Lake……..…Looking towards the Southwest end of the Salt Lake Valley. 

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Amy Harmer and I.

I came home with lots of confidence and drive, so I decided to clean out the side driveway where we keep the Four Wheeler trailer and crap…I mean stuff.  you should have seen it before!  Pat myself on the back! I make this space look good!

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I still have lots of daylight left, so I will make the most of it by going shopping for some more cute material and grocery shopping.  Then home to work on more camp stuff and end the afternoon with a good book and nap while waiting for Mark to come home from the YM’s Duty to God Camp in Zion’s.

All in all…..it was a great longest day of the year!

#mysummerfun #day21

Friday, June 20, 2014

Summer Fun – day 19 & 20

Day 19

A brisk walk never hurt anyone, right?!

Well, that’s what I did for my exercise….needed to do something.

Taught some sewing lessons….these girls are so funny and make teaching them fun. they made messenger bags which turned out so cute.  we accomplished a lot this week.

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Spent the rest of the day doing…..you guessed it……laundry…..oh, and

camp stuff. 

Mark left tonight for the ym’s duty to god camp down in Zions.

Got all the food planned for camp. 

#mysummerfun #day19

 

Day 20

Got up early to ride…..of course, it was beautiful!

I am lucky to live in a place where I am so close to such beautiful nature and can enjoy it on my bike.

Made official lists for camp….started gathering stuff and checking it off the list.  that’s a good feeling!  i have delegated so much out that i don’t have a lot to gather.  if you think it is hard to delegate, let me set the record straight….it is the best thing ever and it gets more people involved and invested in whatever you are doing.

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Went and had my toenails done with Shannon Reynolds.  I went with blue again.  I just love having my toenails done….never thought i would feel that way!

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I went shopping for camp stuff and of course, i found some stuff for me!  Isn’t it so cute!

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Oh, i also found some cute fabric….i just had to get some for me and ashley!IMG_1283

I feel some skirt making coming on!

Did a few more things for camp….I am just so grateful for all those that are helping me.  I am very touched by it!

finished the day off with a pic of the mountains for ashley….so she won’t miss them so much!

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and last, but not least,  ending with a good book!

what an awesome, productive day!

#mysummerfun #day20

Summer Fun – day 15 - 18

Day 15

I found this new program called Windows Live Writer.

I can type in it like I am using word and then publish it to my blog.  I can also add pictures, tables, maps, videos, etc. and use lots of different fonts…it is pretty cool!

HAPPY FATHER’S DAY!

I need to do a shout out to my dad, Mark’s dad, and to Mark!

Each one of these men are different and unique in their own way, but have been a major

influence in my life and our kids lives!  They are very good men, hard-working, honest, and love their wives and children.  I am grateful for each one of them!

#mysummerfun #day15

Day 16

Today was an early ride!

Later in the day I taught sewing lessons to Hailey Hendrickson and Raeya Wyness.

They made swimsuit cover-ups and they turned out cute!  It has been fun having a small class!

It is a lot easier to get things done that way.

Mark and I went on a ride that night, too.  We took a new trail, which turned out to be fun

and we learned about some more trails that we are going to have to try.

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#mysummerfun #day16

 

Day 17

  This is my temple day!  It is always great to go to the temple and work.

I helped Hailey and Raeya make a beach bag and wallet today.  They turned out really cute!

That night, Jesse Reynolds got set apart as an Missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of

Latter-day Saints.  He is going to be a great missionary!

#mysummerfun #day17

Day 18

Camp, Camp, and more Camp!  I have one week from today to get everything

ready and we will head off to camp!  I can’t believe it is already here.

I’m making lots of lists and checking them twice…..no naughty and all nice!

I have some awesome leaders to work with and some awesome girls to work with!

Everyone has been so willing to help.

#mysummerfun #day18

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Summer Fun – day 13 & 14

I really need to keep up on this each day, but at the end of the day

I am exhausted and/or I forget to blog about my summer fun.

So here I am blogging about a couple of days at a time.

Day 13

Bright and early, I went on……you guessed it……a bike ride!

It is so beautiful in the early morning hours.

I am so lucky to live in a place where trails are close;

I have good friends to ride with;

and it is beautiful!

That night we had the missionaries over for our 3rd lesson.

They have asked if we have thought of someone to invite to hear

the discussions.  I have been praying for a long time!

I did have someone come to mind, but I am a little nervous to ask

her.  I know that I should just turn it over to the Lord.  Why is being a missionary so scary?!

Day 14

We spent the morning in the Draper Temple with Jesse Reynolds

and his family.  He took out his endowments; gives his farewell speech on

Father’s Day; leaves for the MTC on June 18th.

We set up the roaming “Farewell Tent” at the Reynolds’ for the

open house.  (The tent will be traveling around the ward to other

missionary open house events)  Attended the open house….and….

snuck in a ride up the Quarry Trail with the Harmer’s afterwards!

All in all, it was a great day!

Thursday, June 12, 2014

Summer Fun - Day 11 & 12

Day 11
Lately my days are filled with......
biking and girls camp prep!
I went on 2 bike rides yesterday which was my reward
before the work that I had to do on camp.
This picture depicts the result of my summer fun....
yes, ladies and gentlemen.....Bruises!
I get these bruises from my pedals hitting my shins!
But, oh, it's so worth it!
 
#mysummerfun #day11
 
Day 12 
I have 13 days until YW's Girls Camp!
I have been working hard and I have been assigning things out
to people who are more capable and/or creative than I am.
I have the ideas and they make it come to fruition!
I love that we share our talents with each other
in the church!
(I'm sure others share their talents outside of the church, too.)
So.........
I made some reservations, made posters, handed off the trading cards to
Holly Hendrickson, sent emails, assigned devotionals, and on
and on.......I am almost done!  Yahoo!
I hope it is as fun as I think it will be!
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trading cards
(they turned out so cute!)
#mysummerfun #day12


Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Summer Fun - day 6, 7, 8, 9, & 10

Okay......I am not very good at keeping up with this summer fun challenge!
Day 6
I can't remember what I did that was fun!
#mysummerfun #day6
 
Day 7
I worked in the garden....the other front garden....to get it matching the other one.
I worked hard and not it looks awesome....pretty, weed free, and clean!
Nothing says summer like a garden looking like this!
 
Mark and I also went to the temple with Taven Herd.  He took out his own endowments to get ready to go on his mission in a few weeks.
 
Mark had fun fixing the sprinkler valves in the back yard for the third time!
This time he designed his own valves, which probably will work a lot better than
the ones he tried from the store!
 
We then went on a quick ride up the quarry trail on our bikes. 
It was beautiful!
I love riding through the trees and then smelling campfire!
I love the smell of campfire!
#mysummerfun #day7
 
Day 8
Well, this day was Sunday and all the fun I had was at church!
There were some great talks given which made me ponder
where I sit with the Lord and the gospel in my life.
Sometimes it seems daunting when I feel like there is so much for me
to change and work on in my life.  But, with the Lord's help, I can do it!
 
Day 9
This day was spent.........
riding my bike with great friends and great scenery!
 
Early morning rides up the quarry trail results in this kind of pictures.
 
I got good and bad news from the doctor about my finger.....
Bad news......I can't get in any pool, lake, etc. until mid July.  If I got bacteria in the
wound it could lead to an infection.  Which means I can't teach swimming lessons for a while, can't
swim, can't get in bear lake during camp, etc.  Kind of puts a damper on camp for me!
Good news......it is healing nicely.  In a couple of months there should be new skin
and it should grow back thick and hopefully look somewhat normal.
I came home and wondered what I was supposed to be learning from all of this and
what I am supposed to be doing this summer.  There must be a learning experience
in here somewhere!
 
I spent the rest of the day working on girls camp!
I got some things assigned out.....things printed up......people talked to.....
all forms passed out.......lots of willing helpers!
I am getting quite excited because it is coming together quite nicely!
 
Mark and I went on a .........yep, you guessed it.....bike ride!
This time we went to Corner Canyon.
I like Corner Canyon because you don't have to work so hard at riding over rocks like on the Quarry Trail.  I think I scared a guy, who came around a blind corner, more than he scared me.  I
am a little leery around blind corners after last years crash.
#mysummerfun #day9
 
Day 10
Today is my temple day!
The first half of my day goes quite fast because I am working in the temple.
Nothing says summer like a peaceful atmosphere serving others.
#mysummerfun #day10
 
I know this is not what Ashley had in mind when she gave me this summer fun challenge,
but some days are just very boring.  But this is the "real life" of me during the summer....
and all the other seasons of the year.
Carry on!
#mysummerfun!
 
 

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Summer Fun - day 5

I love making things and having them turn out so cute!
Today, I made a swimsuit cover-up and a beach bag to go with it.
I like it so much I might have to make some more...maybe even one for me and Ash.
Shhhh.....that's a secret.....don't tell Ash.


Don't you agree?  So Cute!!
I made them for Jane Harmer's birthday which is on Saturday.
 
Mark and I went for a bike ride tonight, also.
It was a lot of fun and a perfect night.
We rode out in Corner Canyon.
I love mountain biking!
I love my new bike!
But most of all, I love Mark!!!
 
#mysummerfun  #day5


Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Summer Fun Day 3 & 4

i did a lot today, which makes up for yesterday....

.....yesterday was my work at the temple day....and then i don't remember doing anything else.
besides, i can't put a pic of me being grouchy. :0(  #mysummerfun  #day3


here is today....
Sewing wallets for girls camp

Finished painting the garden décor for Mark
 
And......
I went mountain biking for the first time in 2 weeks since my finger accident!
it was AWESOME!
I'm back in the saddle!  (literally)
i have some awesome friends to enjoy the mountain trails with
and they make it so fun!
 
#mysummerfun  #day4

Monday, June 2, 2014

Adventures!!

The past couple of weeks have been filled with adventures for me....physically!
I think I have run into a streak of bad luck!

First, I started going to physical therapy for my back....I think it is an SI joint problem, which causes pain to shoot down the back of my leg.

Second, I had some gum surgery to do a gum graft...which meant that I couldn't ride my bike or swim for a few days....and yes, the weather was gorgeous during that time.

Third, while teaching sewing lessons to some 6 & 7 yr. olds, I cut a piece of my finger off on my left hand index finger.  It was quite the dramatic scene, but I held myself together (except for crying) so that I didn't scare the girls.  My finger was a gusher!!!  I made Amy Harmer go in the sewing room and get the piece of skin so that we could take it to the hospital with us and hope they could sew it back on.  They did sew it back on.  While I was in the bathroom with my finger in the water...thinking that would stop it from bleeding....Amy went in the sewing room to retrieve the girls and call their moms.  She walked in and they were saying a prayer for me.  Isn't that the sweetest thing!  And a child shall lead them.  I have never been so calm and not get sick or nauseated before...I think it was the faith of the little girls and their prayer that got me through it.  I had to get about 10 stitches and I was back to not riding my bike or swimming for a while. Ugh!  Well, I went to the doctor today after 11 days and he gave me the go ahead to ride. yay!

The pictures that I will post are of me in the hospital....I'm not sure if I should post the day 11 pic.....it's gross!





Hopefully I am done with this bad luck streak!

My summer fun!

The other night I was talking with Ashley and I said, "what am I going to do all summer without you?"  She answered, "you should do an Instagram picture of something you have done that is fun each day! Call it Jill's summer fun."  Well I am calling it "#mysummerfun".

I started it with a preview on May 31st....

Let the summer fun begin!
 #summerfunpreview #summerfundaily#ashleysidea #mysummerfun


I officially started June 1st.....

Nothing says summer like foil dinners!
#mysummerfun #day1

I have moved it to my blog.....well, just because.....

So....here is todays....June 2nd
Homemade Peanut Butter
#madeitmyself #mysummerfun #day2

Thursday, January 2, 2014

Happy 2014!

Welcome to the new year! 
I am excited to start the new year with 
some new goals.
I don't always set goals because I have this problem
of sabotaging myself and then I don't 
accomplish them which leads to feeling like a failure. ;0)
Sooo.....this year I have made a "mental" commitment to keep trying
  and keep moving forward.
Here they are people....my goals for 2014.....
(Oh, I set goals in 6 different areas)
Physically
Eat healthy and exercise
Socially
Be loving and accepting of others
Intellectually
Learn a language
(I know I have put this on before, but I am determined!)
Individually
Work on making my weaknesses strong
Spiritually
Study scriptures
Study conference talks
Pray more consistently 
Family
Monthly dinner and FHE together

I look forward to seeing what I have the potential to become!



Thursday, April 11, 2013

His grace is sufficient

I have been on an atonement learning kick lately. So here is the latest article I have read that I think is really good.


His Grace is Sufficient
By Brad Wilcox
 

Christ’s Grace Is Sufficient to Cover Us

A BYU student once came to me and asked if we could talk. I said, “Of course. How can I  help you?”
 She said, “I just don’t get grace.”
 I responded, “What is it that you don’t understand?”
 She said, “I know I need to do my best and then Jesus does the rest, but I can’t even do my best.”
 She then went on to tell me all the things she should be doing because she’s a Mormon that she wasn’t doing.
She continued, “I know that I have to do my part and then Jesus makes up the difference and fills the gap that stands between my part and perfection. But who fills the gap that stands between where I am now and my part?”   She then went on to tell me all the things that she shouldn’t be doing because she’s a Mormon, but she was doing them anyway.
 Finally I said, “Jesus doesn’t make up the difference.  Jesus makes all the difference.  Grace is not about filling gaps. It is about filling us.”
 Seeing that she was still confused, I took a  piece of paper and drew two dots—one at the  top representing God and one at the bottom representing us. I then said, “Go ahead. Draw the line.  How much is our part? How much is Christ’s part?”
 She went right to the center of the page and began to draw a line. Then, considering what we had been speaking about, she went to the bottom of the page and drew a line just above the bottom dot.
 I said, “Wrong.”
 She said, “I knew it was higher.  I should have just drawn it, because I knew it.”
 I said, “no. The truth is, there is no line.  Jesus filled the whole space.  He paid our debt in full. He didn’t pay it all except for a few coins. He paid it all. It is finished.”
 She said, “right! like I don’t have to do  anything?”
 “Oh no,” I said, “you have plenty to do, but it is not to fill that gap. We will all be resurrected. We will all go back to God’s presence.  What is left to be determined by our obedience is what kind of body we plan on being resurrected with and how comfortable we plan to be in God’s presence and how long we plan to  stay there.”


 Christ asks us to show faith in Him, repent, make and keep covenants, receive the Holy Ghost, and endure to the end. By complying, we are not paying the demands of justice—not even the smallest part. Instead, we are showing  appreciation for what Jesus Christ did by using  it to live a life like His. Justice requires immediate perfection or a punishment when we fall short. Because Jesus took that punishment,  He can offer us the chance for ultimate perfec- tion (see Matthew 5:48, 3 nephi 12:48) and  help us reach that goal. He can forgive what justice never could, and He can turn to us now with His own set of requirements (see 3 nephi  28:35).
 “So what’s the difference?” the girl asked.  “Whether our efforts are required by justice or by Jesus, they are still required.”
 “True,” I said, “but they are required for a different purpose. Fulfilling Christ’s requirements is like paying a mortgage instead of rent or like making deposits in a savings account instead of paying off debt. You still have to hand it over every month, but it is for a totally different reason.”
 

Christ’s Grace Is Sufficient to Transform Us

Christ’s arrangement with us is similar to  a mom providing music lessons for her child.  Mom pays the piano teacher.  How many know what I am talking about?  Because Mom pays the debt in full, she can turn to her child and  ask for something.  What is it?  Practice!  Does the child’s practice pay the piano teacher?  No. Does the child’s practice repay Mom for paying the piano teacher?  No. Practicing is how the  child shows appreciation for Mom’s incredible  gift. It is how he takes advantage of the amazing opportunity Mom is giving him to live his life at a higher level.  Mom’s joy is found not in getting repaid but in seeing her gift used—seeing her child improve. And so she continues to call for practice, practice, practice.
 If the child sees Mom’s requirement of practice as being too overbearing (“Gosh,  Mom, why do I need to practice? None of the other kids have to practice! I’m just going to be a professional baseball player anyway!”), perhaps it is because he doesn’t yet see with mom’s eyes. He doesn’t see how much better his life could be if he would choose to live on a  higher plane.
 In the same way, because Jesus has paid  justice, He can now turn to us and say, “Follow  me” (Matthew4:19), “Keep my command ments” ( John 14:15). If we see His requirements as being way too much to ask (“Gosh! None  of the other Christians have to pay tithing!  None of the other Christians have to go on missions, serve in callings, and do temple work!”), maybe it is because we do not yet see through  Christ’s eyes. We have not yet comprehended what He is trying to make of us.
 Elder Bruce C. Hafen has written, “The great Mediator asks for our repentance not because we must ‘repay’ him in exchange for his  paying  our debt to justice, but because repentance  initiates a developmental process that, with  the Savior’s help, leads us along the path to a  saintly character” (The Broken Heart[Salt lake  City: Deseret Book, 1989], 149; emphasis in  original).
 Elder Dallin H. Oaks has said, referring to President Spencer W. Kimball’s explanation, “The repenting sinner must suffer for his sins, but this suffering has a different purpose than punishment or payment. Its purpose is change”  (The Lord’s Way [Salt lake City: Deseret Book,  1991], 223; emphasis in original).   Let’s put that in terms of our analogy: The child must practice the piano, but this practice has a different purpose than punishment or payment.  Its  purpose is change.
 I have born-again Christian friends who say to me, “You Mormons are trying to earn your way to heaven.”



I say, “no, we are not earning heaven. We are learning heaven. We are preparing for it  (see D&C 78:7). We are practicing for it.”

 They ask me, “Have you been saved by grace?”
 I answer, “Yes. Absolutely, totally, completely, thankfully—yes!”
 Then I ask them a question that perhaps they have not fully considered: “Have you been changed by grace?”  They are so excited about being saved that maybe they are not thinking enough about what comes next. They are so happy the debt is paid that they may not have considered why the debt existed in the first place.  Latter-day Saints know not only what Jesus has saved us from but also what He has saved us for. As my friend Brett Sanders puts it, “A life impacted by grace eventually begins to look like Christ’s life.” As my friend Omar Canals puts it, “While many Christians view Christ’s suffering as only a huge favor He did for us, latter-day Saints also recognize it as  a huge investment He made in us.” As Moroni  puts it, grace isn’t just about being saved. It is also about becoming like the Savior (see  Moroni 7:48).
The miracle of the Atonement is not just that  we can live after we die but that we can live  more abundantly (see John 10:10). The miracle of the Atonement is not just that we can be cleansed and consoled but that we can be  transformed (see romans 8). Scriptures make it clear that no unclean thing can dwell with God  (see Alma 40:26), but, brothers and sisters, no  unchanged thing will even want to.

quilt for ashley and derek - one year - done!

 
look back to one year ago.....
ashley gets engaged!
of course,  i tell her i will make a quilt for their wedding
she picks a pattern and we hurry and buy the fabric.
i get started...
"there are a lot of pieces!"
i sew and sew and help with wedding plans.
help some more with wedding plans.
it's not going to get done for the wedding,
but hopefully this summer.
need to make more blocks to make it a queen size.
need to put it away for a while....i think
i have quilting ADD!
have to get some help from a friend to square up blocks.
sew the rows together.
maybe it will be done by halloween.
need more fabric for the borders and the back.
search and search....order a few different kinds.
search some more....order some more.
find the backing at joann's fabric.
(fabric is very expensive!)
maybe it will be done for christmas or the new year.
finally sew on the borders.
get it quilted.....turned out beautiful.
maybe it will be done for their 1st anniversary!
give me a few days of general conference and ashley's helping hands
and we cranked out the binding by hand.
it is done!!
 (with one month to spare!!)
 
it turned out so good, i was hoping ashley would let me keep it!
no such luck!
enjoy the quilt.....love you two!
 
 



Monday, March 11, 2013

atonement

this is the best talk by elder bednar....read, study, repeat!


“In the Strength of the Lord"
(Words of Mormon 1:14; Mosiah 9:17;Mosiah 10:10; Alma 20:4)

DAVID A. BEDNAR



David A. Bednar was the president of BYU-Idaho when this devotional
address was given at Brigham Young University on 23 October 2001.



The Journey of Life

1-         The framework for my message today is a statement by President David O. McKay. He summarized the overarching purpose of the gospel of the Savior in these terms: "The purpose of the gospel is . . . to make bad men good and good men better, and to change human nature" (CR, October 1965, 136–37; see also Brigham Young)

2-         Thus the journey of a lifetime is to progress from bad to good to better and to experience the mighty change of heart--and to have our fallen natures changed….

3-         If I were to emphasize one overarching point this morning, it would be this: I suspect that you and I are much more familiar with the nature of the redeeming power of the Atonement than we are with the enabling power of the Atonement. It is one thing to know that Jesus Christ came to earth to die for us. That is fundamental and foundational to the doctrine of Christ. But we also need to appreciate that the Lord desires, through His Atonement and by the power of the Holy Ghost, to live in us--not only to direct us but also to empower us. I think most of us know that when we do things wrong, when we need help to overcome the effects of sin in our lives, the Savior has paid the price and made it possible for us to be made clean through His redeeming power. Most of us clearly understand that the Atonement is for sinners. I am not so sure, however, that we know and understand that the Atonement is also for saints--for good men and women who are obedient and worthy and conscientious and who are striving to become better and serve more faithfully. I frankly do not think many of us "get it" concerning this enabling and strengthening aspect of the Atonement, and I wonder if we mistakenly believe we must make the journey from good to better and become a saint all by ourselves through sheer grit, willpower, and discipline, and with our obviously limited capacities.

4-         Brothers and sisters, the gospel of the Savior is not simply about avoiding bad in our lives; it also is essentially about doing and becoming good. And the Atonement provides help for us to overcome and avoid bad and to do and become good. There is help from the Savior for the entire journey of life--from bad to good to better and to change our very nature….

5-         I am not trying to suggest that the redeeming and enabling powers of the Atonement are separate and discrete. Rather, these two dimensions of the Atonement are connected and complementary; they both need to be operational during all phases of the journey of life. And it is eternally important for all of us to recognize that both of these essential elements of the journey of life--both putting off the natural man and becoming a saint, both overcoming bad and becoming good--are accomplished through the power of the Atonement. Individual willpower, personal determination and motivation, and effective planning and goal setting are necessary but ultimately insufficient to triumphantly complete this mortal journey. Truly we must come to rely upon "the merits, and mercy, and grace of the Holy Messiah" (2 Nephi 2:8).

 

 

Grace and the Enabling Power of the Atonement

6-         I now want to describe in greater detail the enabling power of the Atonement. Brothers and sisters, please notice the use of the word grace in the verse from 2 Nephi to which we just referred. In the Bible Dictionary in our scriptures we learn that the word grace frequently is used in the scriptures to connote enabling power. On page 697, under the word grace, we read:

7-         "A word that occurs frequently in the New Testament, especially in the writings of Paul. The main idea of the word is divine means of help or strength, given through the bounteous mercy and love of Jesus Christ (emphasis added).

8-         "It is through the grace of the Lord Jesus, made possible by his atoning sacrifice, that mankind will be raised in immortality, every person receiving his body from the grave in a condition of everlasting life."

9-         Please note these next sentences:

10-       "It is likewise through the grace of the Lord that individuals, through faith in the atonement of Jesus Christ and repentance of their sins, receive strength and assistance to d

good works that they otherwise would not be able to maintain if left to their own means. This grace is an enabling power that allows men and women to lay hold on eternal life and exaltation after they have expended their own best efforts" (emphasis added).

11-       That is, grace represents that divine assistance or heavenly help each of us will desperately need to qualify for the celestial kingdom. Thus the enabling power of the Atonement strengthens us to do and be good and serve beyond our own individual desire and natural capacity.

12-       In my personal scripture study I often insert the term enabling power whenever I encounter the word grace. Consider, for example, this verse with which we are all familiar: "For we know that it is by grace that we are saved, after all we can do" (2 Nephi 25:23)….

 

 

Illustrations and Implications

13-       The journey of a lifetime, as described by President McKay, is to go from bad to good to better and to have our very natures changed. And the Book of Mormon is replete with examples of disciples and prophets who knew and understood and were transformed by the enabling power of the Atonement in making that journey. May I suggest, brothers and sisters, that as we come to better understand this sacred power, our gospel perspective will be greatly enlarged and enriched. Such a perspective will change us in remarkable ways.

14-       Nephi is an example of one who knew and understood and relied upon the enabling power of the Savior. In 1 Nephi 7 we recall that the sons of Lehi had returned to Jerusalem to enlist Ishmael and his household in their cause. Laman and others in the party traveling with Nephi from Jerusalem back to the wilderness rebelled, and Nephi exhorted his brethren to have faith in the Lord. It was at this point in their trip that Nephi's brothers bound him with cords and planned his destruction. Now please note Nephi's prayer in verse 17: "O Lord, according to my faith which is in thee, wilt thou deliver me from the hands of my brethren; yea, even give me strength that I may burst these bands with which I am bound" (emphasis added).

15-       Brothers and sisters, do you know what I likely would have prayed for if I had been tied up by my brothers? My prayer would have included a request for something bad to happen to my brothers and ended with the phrase "wilt thou deliver me from the hands of my brethren" or, in other words, "Please get me out of this mess, now!" It is especially interesting to me that Nephi did not pray, as I probably would have prayed, to have his circumstances changed. Rather, he prayed for the strength to change his circumstances. And may I suggest that he prayed in this manner precisely because he knew and understood and had experienced the enabling power of the Atonement of the Savior.

16-       I personally do not believe the bands with which Nephi was bound just magically fell from his hands and wrists. Rather, I suspect that he was blessed with both persistence and personal strength beyond his natural capacity, that he then "in the strength of the Lord" (Mosiah 9:17) worked and twisted and tugged on the cords and ultimately and literally was enabled to break the bands.

17-       Brothers and sisters, the implication of this episode for each of us is quite straightforward. As you and I come to understand and employ the enabling power of the Atonement in our personal lives, we will pray and seek for strength to change our circumstances rather than praying for our circumstances to be changed. We will become agents who "act" rather than objects that are "acted upon" (2 Nephi 2:14).

18-       Consider the example in Mosiah 24 as Alma and his people are being persecuted by Amulon. As recorded in verse 14, the voice of the Lord came to these good people in their affliction and indicated: "And I will also ease the burdens which are put upon your shoulders, that even you cannot feel them upon your backs."

19-       Now if I had been one of Alma's people and received that particular assurance, my response likely would have been, "I thank thee, and please hurry!" But notice in verse 15 the process the Lord used to lighten the burden: "And now it came to pass that the burdens which were laid upon Alma and his brethren were made light; yea, the Lord did strengthen them that they could bear up their burdens with ease, and they did submit cheerfully and with patience to all the will of the Lord" (emphasis added).

20-       Brothers and sisters, what was changed in this episode? It was not the burden that changed; the challenges and difficulties of persecution were not immediately removed from the people. But Alma and his followers were strengthened, and their increased capacity and strength made the burdens they bore lighter. These good people were empowered through the Atonement to act as agents and impact their circumstances--"in the strength of the Lord." Alma and his people were then directed to safety in the land of Zarahemla.

21-       Now some of you may legitimately be wondering, "Brother Bednar, what makes you think the episode with Alma and his people is an example of the enabling power of the Atonement?" I believe the answer to your question is found in a comparison of Mosiah 3:19 and Mosiah 24:15. Let's resume reading in Mosiah 3:19 where we previously had stopped: "and putteth off the natural man and becometh a saint through the atonement of Christ the Lord, and becometh as a child, submissive, meek, humble, patient, full of love, willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon him, even as a child doth submit to his father" (emphasis added).

As we progress in the journey of mortality from bad to good to better, as we put off the natural man or woman in each of us, and as we strive to become saints and have our very natures changed, then the attributes detailed in this verse increasingly should describe the type of person you and I are becoming. We will become more childlike, more submissive, more patient, and more willing to submit. Now compare these characteristics in Mosiah 3:19 with those used to describe Alma and his people in the latter part of verse 15 in Mosiah 24: "and they did submit cheerfully and with patience to all the will of the Lord" (emphasis added).

22-       I find the parallels between the attributes described in these verses striking and an indication that Alma's good people were becoming a better people through the enabling power of the Atonement of Christ the Lord.

23-       We are all familiar with the story of Alma and Amulek contained in Alma 14. In this episode many faithful Saints had been put to death by fire, and these two servants of the Lord had been imprisoned and beaten. Please consider this petition contained in verse 26 offered by Alma as he prayed in prison: "O Lord, give us strength according to our faith which is in Christ, even unto deliverance" (emphasis added).

24-       Here again we see reflected in his request Alma's understanding of and confidence in the enabling power of the Atonement. Now note the result of this prayer, as described in the latter part of verse 26 and in verse 28:

25-       "And they [Alma and Amulek] broke the cords with which they were bound; and when the people saw this, they began to flee, for the fear of destruction had come upon them. . . .

26-       "And Alma and Amulek came forth out of the prison, and they were not hurt; for the Lord had granted unto them power, according to their faith which was in Christ" (emphasis added).

27-       Once again the enabling power is evident as good people struggle against evil and strive to become even better and serve more effectively "in the strength of the Lord" (Mosiah 9:17)….

28-       Examples of the enabling power are not found only in the scriptures. Daniel W. Jones was born in 1830 in Missouri, and he joined the Church in California in 1851. In 1856 he participated in the rescue of handcart companies that were stranded in Wyoming by severe storms. After the rescue party found the suffering Saints, provided what immediate comfort they could, and made arrangements for the sick and the feeble to be transported to Salt Lake City, Daniel and several other young men volunteered to remain with and safeguard the company's possessions. The food and supplies left with Daniel and his colleagues were, to say the least, meager and were rapidly expended. I will now quote from Daniel Jones' personal journal and his description of the events that followed:

29-       "Game soon became so scarce that we could kill nothing. We ate all the poor meat; one would get hungry eating it. Finally that was all gone, nothing now but hides were left. We made a trial of them. A lot was cooked and eaten without any seasoning and it made the whole company sick. Many were so turned against the stuff that it made them sick to think of it. . . .

30-       "Things looked dark, for nothing remained but the poor raw hides taken from starved cattle. We asked the Lord to direct us what to do. The brethren did not murmur, but felt to trust in God. We had cooked the hide, after soaking and scraping the hair off until it was soft and then ate it, glue and all. This made it rather inclined to stay with us longer than we desired. Finally I was impressed how to fix the stuff and gave the company advice, telling them how to cook it; for them to scorch and scrape the hair off; this had a tendency to kill and purify the bad taste that scalding gave it. After scraping, boil one hour in plenty of water, throwing the water away which had extracted all the glue, then wash and scrape the hide thoroughly, washing in cold water, then boil to a jelly and let it get cold, and then eat with a little sugar sprinkled on it. This was considerable trouble, but we had little else to do and it was better than starving" (Daniel W. Jones, Forty Years Among the Indians [Salt Lake City: Juvenile Instructor Office, 1890], 81).

31-       All that I have read thus far is a preparation for the next line from Daniel W. Jones' journal. It illustrates how those pioneer Saints may have known something about the enabling power of the Atonement that we, in our prosperity and ease, are not as quick to understand: "We asked the Lord to bless our stomachs and adapt them to this food" (Jones, Forty Years, 81; emphasis added). My dear brothers and sisters, I know what I would have prayed for in those circumstances. I would have prayed for something else to eat. "Heavenly Father, please send me a quail or a buffalo." It never would have occurred to me to pray that my stomach would be strengthened and adapted to what we already had. What did Daniel W. Jones know? He knew about the enabling power of the Atonement of Jesus Christ. He did not pray that his circumstances would be changed. He prayed that he would be strengthened to deal with his circumstances. Just as Nephi, Amulek, and Alma and his people were strengthened, Daniel W. Jones had the spiritual insight to know what to ask for in that prayer. "We hadn't the faith to ask him to bless the raw-hide, for it was 'hard stock.' On eating now all seemed to relish the feast. We were three days without eating before this second attempt was made. We enjoyed this sumptuous fare for about six weeks" (Jones, Forty Years, 81–82).

32-       The enabling power of the Atonement of Christ strengthens us to do things we could never do on our own. Sometimes I wonder if in our latter-day world of ease--in our world of microwave ovens and cell phones and air-conditioned cars and comfortable homes--I wonder if we ever learn to acknowledge our daily dependence upon the enabling power of the Atonement.

33-       The greatest lessons I have learned about the enabling power have come from the quiet example of my wife in our own home. I watched her persevere through intense and continuous morning sickness and vomiting during each of her three pregnancies. She literally was sick all day every day for eight months with each pregnancy. That challenge was never removed from her. But together we prayed that she would be strengthened, and she indeed was blessed through the enabling power of the Atonement to do physically what in her own power she could not do. Sister Bednar is a remarkably capable and competent woman, and over the years I have seen how she has been magnified to handle the mocking and scorn that come from a secular society when a Latter-day Saint woman heeds prophetic counsel and makes the family and home and the nurturing of children her highest priorities. In today's world a righteous woman and mother in Zion will need both priesthood support and the enabling power of the Atonement. I thank and pay tribute to Susan for helping me to learn such invaluable lessons….

34-       There is no physical pain, no anguish of soul, no suffering of spirit, no infirmity or weakness that you or I ever experience during our mortal journey that the Savior did not experience first. You and I in a moment of weakness may cry out, "No one understands. No one knows." No human being, perhaps, knows. But the Son of God perfectly knows and understands, for He felt and bore our burdens before we ever did. And because He paid the ultimate price and bore that burden, He has perfect empathy and can extend to us His arm of mercy in so many phases of our life. He can reach out, touch, and succor--literally run to us--and strengthen us to be more than we could ever be and help us to do that which we could never do through relying only upon our own power….

35-       I express my appreciation for the infinite and eternal sacrifice of the Lord Jesus Christ. The Atonement is not only for people who have done bad things and are trying to be good. It is for good people who are trying to become better and serve faithfully and who yearn for an ongoing and mighty change of heart. Indeed, "in the strength of the Lord" (Mosiah 9:17) we can do and overcome all things.

36-       Brothers and sisters, I know the Savior lives. I have experienced both His redeeming and enabling power, and I witness that these powers are real and available to each of us. I know He directs the affairs of this Church. I know apostles and prophets authoritatively act for and in behalf of the Lord Jesus Christ. These things I know to be true and so testify in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.